Friday, 30 May 2008

CHARITY ART AUCTION - 26 JUNE 2008


A good friend of ours has teamed up with the popular Dolphin gastro pub in Sydenham to host a charity art auction on the 26th June (raising money for Children with Leukaemia). Good, local artists have kindly donated their work to be auctioned and the actor Hamish Clark who famously played Duncan in Monarch of the Glen will be our esteemed auctioneer.

You can either book as an individual or indeed rally some friends and colleagues and come as a group taking a complete table. For more information and to see a copy of the publicity please go to www.artdoglondon.co.uk. If you have any queries then give me a call or email me.

Thanks for your support, I hope that you can join us in raising as much money as possible for what, in our opinion, is an excellent charity that really saves lives. Please also check out www.leukaemia.org

The picture shown is of Francesca last July at the height of her treatment - it is emotive but it serves to remind me of how poorly this disease makes children.

Wednesday, 28 May 2008

Chicken Pox Free

The spots finished coming out on Fran on Saturday so we were able to leave the hospital on Sunday with oral anti-viral drugs. They have stopped all her chemo for the moment and we will re-start on Friday - this was to allow her body to fight the virus as well as possible. The upshot of all this is that she is now really vulnerable to getting Chicken Pox again over the next year as she wont have built up another immunity to it. It is very annoying as we will have to be so careful and because there is a massive bout of CP here at the moment.



It felt like a very long week and Francesca was delighted to get home and couldn't wait to get out into the garden with Charlie!



Friday, 23 May 2008

A message for Jo - Josh's mum

Hi Jo - thanks for your feedback ... I would love to email you but don't have your address as you came up anonymous - my email is jayne.corp@waitrose.com so please feel free to email me direct. I hope you are bearing up with Josh - It will get lots better and the five week steroid period really is one of the hardest times as parents... you will get your happy son back really soon. Love, Jayne

Tuesday, 20 May 2008

We made it on holiday!!!!!


We were uncertain until the last moment but we were able to pack ourselves up and head off to North Devon via my mum in Bristol for our long awaited holiday.

On the Monday we arrived at our Hotel, The Saunton Sands Nr Braunton (above). It was wonderful. Overlooking a fantastic stretch of sandy beach favoured by surfers we found we had an amazing family suite with an amazing view – Francesca and Charlie thought it was fantastic!

The Hotel had both an indoor and outdoor pool along with playroom, terrace, great food, terrace etc etc....... heaven! Fran and Charlie could hardly contain themselves and once we had checked in the first port of call was of course the pool (no, not the bar for me!!!)!!

North Devon is absolutely beautiful, we found a couple of wonderful beaches where the children rock pooled, built sand palaces and ate sandy bbq food! Without a doubt Charlie’s favourite times were on the beach rock pooling – he had no fear whatsoever, even when falling and getting soaked!

We had the best weather that only changed on Thursday when it became overcast but, even then it was perfect as Francesca’s skin really needed a break from the sun (she has become photo sensitive and only has to smile at the sun to become red!!). So, on Thursday Fran had her special treat.... horse riding!!!! I had found local stables and booked her in and to say that ‘Murphy’ her white pony was the highlight of Fran’s holiday would be a gross understatement!!! She smiled and chatted and chatted and smiled the whole time to the point that the lady leading her needed to remind her to in fact hold on!!!

Friday took us back to Bristol after the most wonderful holiday. The first break since diagnosis that hasn’t been cancelled due to illness.

THANK YOU to all those people who gave their money so very generously to enable us to have such a lovely break. Thank you to Phyllis for unashamedly approaching people and taking their money (I think she asked but you can’t be too sure with that young lady!) We don’t know who you are at all but hope that you will, by reading this, know what a special time we had which without your kindness would not have happened. Thank you.

So, last Friday we returned to mum’s to spend a couple of nights. Charlie had been running a temperature and by the evening was miserable and complaining of a sore neck – Calpol ensued but despite that he had a bad febrile convulsion (he went blue). We were worried but didn’t take him to A&E as he came round and seemed relatively perky, plus he has had a few of these episodes. Saturday morning though we felt he should be checked out so off we pottered. He as fine however, we had suspected that he might have had Chicken Pox on holiday and they agreed that this may have been the case and with that in mind they wanted Francesca to have a blood test to check her immunity to Chicken Pox (she was immune when she was diagnosed but a couple of spots had appeared on her hand).

Sunday we arrived home and the nurses took blood from Francesca – by this stage more spots had appeared on her hands and by Monday morning Stuart and I were sufficiently concerned that she may have Chicken Pox to call GOS then go to Lewisham Hospital – where we are now!
Whilst not covered in spots, she is very very uncomfortable – her blood results who that the chemo has wiped out her previous immunity to CP so they have started her on IV anti-viral’s three times a day.

She is feeling pretty terrible at the moment and her chemo for this month is cancelled. She’ll be in for 7 – 10 days then onto oral medicines at home. Chicken Pox can be really serious for children with cancer so we are glad she is where she is for the moment.

Obviously it has not been the best end to our holiday but at least she was well when we were away and as a family we all have the most wonderful memories of uninterrupted quality family time with lots of fun, sunshine and laughter. We met lovely people, stayed in a lovely hotel and experience our own special family time.

I’ll keep you posted on Fran – enjoy the pictures













Monday, 5 May 2008

A busy few weeks

We had a busy couple of weeks with Fran during her school holiday. Firstly she had grommets put in both her ears at GOS then the following week had her big chemo and steroids and it absolutely knocked her sideways. She was in lots of pain that we frankly found really hard to manage and was desperately unhappy with it. The shame of it was that it meant the last week of the school holidays was taken up with Fran feeling rotten.



The following week however made up for it all when Sarah Jane (CBeebies queen) came for tea! Francesca and her friend Tegan had an absolute ball! Sarah Jane did as the girls told her, had her hair brushed (or tangled!), was taken to the dungeon (Fran's room) and buried under a duvet and cushions plus had a carpet picnic with donuts and juice - all before tea! A really lovely lady who made both the girls feel really special.



Next weekend we go off on our holiday to North Devon - fingers crossed that Francesca stays well and that fun will be had by all. We are planning on going horse/pony riding, swimming, taking long walks on the beach and rock pooling! We are soooo looking forward to it all - thanks to all those wonderful people who sponsored Phyllis in whatever it was she ended up doing!!!!!!

Pictures of Fran, Tegan and Sarah Jane to follow when I find my camera and upload them!